Saturday, August 31, 2013

Time, Goals, and Alter-egos

            A few weeks ago, I wrote about my week at the LEAP leadership conference and all I’d learned. I mentioned a few new skills I was excited to apply in my life, and hinted that I had some goals to reach. Most of those goals are long-term, so I don’t have anything too impressive to report yet. On the other hand, I’ll have you know I’ve been holding myself accountable for my habits and time management and I’ve been successful thus far!
            I really am awful when it comes to managing my time, and spending it wisely. The tasks that can wait I take care of right away, and the urgent ones always seem to somehow get swept under the rug…how does that happen?! I’ve always had a hard time with prioritizing. But, ladies and gents, I’m showing some serious potential and improvement already. And you can too with these simple steps!—Only joking, this isn’t an infomercial, but I do want a brag a little bit, and if you so feel inclined, maybe you’ll be inspired, if you will, as I was. Plus, school just started around here so it’s totally appropriate and completely relevant.
            That week at LEAP, some of the coaches spoke to us about time management and showed us how they manage their time. They all had schedules, to-do lists, and planners, from iPhone apps to good ol’ pens and paper. So, as they suggested, I “copied genius” as I started making lists and using my own planner this week. And I just may have gone a little overboard.
            I made a list of my short term goals, which turned into a to-do list of sorts. On another sheet of paper, I wrote two more lists: “Things That Will Help Me Achieve My Goals” and “Things That Will NOT Help Me Achieve My Goals.” The first had everything I should be doing to be on the right track. The latter had things I’m normally prone to doing, but, because they will in no way help me reach my goals or get my tasks done, I must no longer do.
            While I’ve always found planners to be extremely helpful and essential during the school year, I’ve never used one during the summer. Until, you know, today. I got out my new weekly planner and wrote down my work schedules and anything else I had going on. Most importantly, I transferred my to-do list and short-term goals as appointments I made for myself. Today, I finally did my laundry—three loads of it—because I had it written in at 12 o’clock, in between other tasks and errands I had penciled in. Some of you may laugh at the fact I had to schedule doing my laundry, but let me just ask: who’s got clean socks? And who’s laughing now? That’s right. This girl.
            I also find it helpful—and now quite automatic, habitual, and even subconscious—to write myself little comments of encouragement in my planners. I can remember doing this in third grade, when I got my first planner. I didn’t know what to write in the few lines given for “notes”, so I would mindlessly scribble phrases like “You rock!” and “You got this!” I guess it just stuck because I’ve done it on almost every page of every planner I’ve had since.
These encouragements have, over the years, developed a personality of their own—one might venture to say they’ve created an alter ego of mine? I don’t know why, but these comments have evolved into inside jokes between me and…me. You know when you find something funny, so you share it with someone else and you’re cracking yourself up while the other person stares at you blankly, not amused in the slightest? This sort of thing happens to me all too often, sadly. As a result, I have a mental collection of phrases that, for reasons unbeknownst even to me, I—and I alone—find hilarious. So I find these random catchphrases inscribed within the margins of my planners, and oddly enough, they actually do motivate me to write that paper, or study for that test, or even do my laundry! I would include some examples, but as I explained, nobody would find them amusing but me. So between the lines of my personal planner they shall stay. But trust me, they’re good. They’re real good.

Always, Anna

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